My Space Fools: Cowards, Liars and Violent Sheep

Several years ago, when I first started posting my poems as a tribute to my father, having lost him and two other friends within 8 months, I took a membership in MySpace.
For several weeks, I did not even know that you could blog your poems. The first instance I became aware of it was when some woman, a stranger, asked to become my ’friend.’

Things piled up from there. So-called friends kept adding. I sent out requests. Women started sending emails.
I flirted back with them in the comments section of my posts. They’d email, we’d exchange fluid, oh so sorry, I mean, messages.

The poems got more popular, no matter what their subject, medieval times, ancient Italy, death, whatever. Women responded to them as if they were written for them specifically.
Jealous guys specifically commented on my work about all the poems being for women.

Notice, assholes: I had close to 130 poems and prose poems published around the world by legitimate university and literary journals by then for decades. Those poems. So I guess all those literary journals were womanizers too, eh? Oh yeh, Doug? You’re a backstabbing petty annoyance of a shithead.

These were and were not women I happened to be corresponding with, either through email or on Yahoo messenger.

At the same time, my poems were always getting high views and responses to such a degree that for a few months I held the #1 blog in Poetry every day.
People complained after Doug got to #1 with say 59 views, and 20 responses, while others with 500 views and 100+ comments weren’t #1 – can you say You’re a fucking cheater, Doug? I know you can.

That changed when some  guy I never heard of asked me to comment on his poems. I said I would.
I did not mean in the next few moments but apparently he did.
He decided to screw with me.

One day when I was checking the blogs I noticed one that was outright defaming, with my name specifically spelled out. Not that it was the same guy. But perhaps – these people use fake ids, and false pictures, and doctored documents all along.

A day before one guy on there who was always coming into my ‘friend’ list and getting friendships with all the good looking women – I noticed because whenever I went to his profile, there was always another who’d signed up with me a day before, asked me to post a blog comment about him getting his book published through an online self-publishing company.
I did, and he said “you’re a good friend.”
His was one of the first comments on this other guy’s post defaming and calculating lies about me, and it was merely “hahaha.”

So not only did he not tell me, he did that behind my back. Principled guy, right? Has integrity huh?
Salacious Sal, or Darryl, was only the first. I mean, you’d trust that guy, wouldn’t you?

Apparently I was being accused by Christie, of asking her for some photos. Likely nude or something. The liar.
Despite asking her through email before it was blocked, and many many others, I was never told what I had apparently done.
Later they spread those lies to others with ‘apparent’ proof but nothing they cared to share with me.
Likely because I could dispute it with proof it was contrived.
And despite asking for proof, from each once accusing me, I was never given any.
These idiots are still doing this to others.

And there are groups of women who flirt with guys and then distribute their emails amongst themselves, and laugh about it.
Who’s worst? The guys because they take things at face value, or their deceivers who play along, and then act high and mighty? Those women still get the attention, and soothe their lack of consciences by pretending to themselves their characters are of a higher moral quality.
NOT.

The quality of those characters can be taken from the originating post. And from Darryl’s broken-backed statement to them. Oh yeh, he also made friends specifically with the women who agreed with the original post, even though none of them had ever seen anything as to so-called proof.

I was attacked and defamed by many cowards. Christie, Cheryl, whom I had never heard of, told me to fuck off as an opening salvo, then proceeded to perpetuate the defamation in her emails and blogs, while at the same time all the brave cowards and violent sheep made their blogs closed so only their friends could see them.
Can’t risk a lawsuit when you’re busy shitting on someone – especially when none of it is true, when no proof exists. And when whatever is calculated as so-called ‘proof’ would be easily seen through by any computer expert.

I never had to ask for photos.  But even if I had, who forced them?
Women then would send them, to my surprise. I did ask to see them on  video camera so I would know they were real, not some fake psycho. Gee, wonder why huh…. And that was the only reason.
You see I’d been taken by some woman before, pretending to be someone she wasn’t. My naïve experience expecting people to actually be whom they represent themselves to be.

The thing is I was only talking/flirting with women whom I could see were doing the same thing with other guys.
Nothing was promised.
If a phone number was exchanged, it was in good fun, sexual or otherwise. But that is the heart of the matter: numbers were exchanged. I did not solely possess theirs, nor did they simply have mine.

So they accused me of sexually flirting with them who were doing it themselves with many others. That includes Christie, and her husband, flirting with others still on MySpace, and Facebook.
Gee, golly, assholes, you think I would simply disappear and not follow up, have people on my side who would follow you, volunteer to track what you do, to pretend to be others who engaged you in the same conduct of which you accused me, slandered me, defamed me, and others? Oh yes, people did that for me. Only guessing, but likely it is still happening… Comfortable now, you malicious shits.

Another was MaryAnn. She supported me with her first statement on the asshole’s blog, especially after the headline grabber, whom I had never met or talked with or had anything to do with as far as I know – but then again these people use fake ids, still – said he’d like to kill me, right out on the blog.
In her next post there, minutes later, she flirted with the guy – all the while exchanging emails with me about what an asshole he was. She, and the rest, are ‘Charmin.’

There’s the dilemma. Every single person there was and is more guilty of what they accused me of  than I ever could have been -  hypocrisy, defamation, and outright bullshit so shore up the reputations they did not have, to gain the spotlight they could never otherwise attain.
And all under the pretense of virtue.

Of course others who did not know the details, who were presented with lies and phony emails, some sent through the U.S. military (right, Cheryl – still got the proof on ya on that…), joined the circus in defaming me.
Courtney certainly did. One day she’s coming to see me, next day she isn’t speaking. Then she’s sending out the same emails as the others, all purporting to be from me. None ever being sent to me so I could see them.
Must have been afraid I would be able to show that they were fake.
Don’t like my saying this, you asswipes? Take it to court. I have my proof. You have your lack of character, and ethics; your slander, and defamation of character: the wormy, weaseling hypocrites that you are for the whole world to see. Come on, shitbirds.

Mary**n was confronted with the fact that I had her emails after she joined in defaming and maligning me and told to stop or they would be posted.
Guess what? She stopped.
She’d been accusing me, and agreeing with others about me, of the very thing she herself had done – with me.

There was a stage where I was basically pursued by what for no better terms were unattractive, bulky women. Although in my forthright bluntness I probably said fat and ugly.
I was pursued as if because I had so many different textual flings with other women, they deserved the attention as well.
They didn’t. No one did. That was my decision, not their prerogative.

So, basically, someone concocted lies and defamation about me, others maintained the constant maligning of my character while I was going through a severe grieving process, and was ill, and only a few saw something wrong with that.

People with fake photos, fake ids, phony isp numbers, maligned and defamed me, pretending virtue, while they themselves were, and are, guilty of the conduct of which I was falsely, and jealously, accused.
While affected judgment may be the basis of my actions throughout that hard process, I pretended to nothing.

I was straight forward. I did not pledge anything that was not given. I did not state I was only for them.
Whatever their social schizophrenia led them to believe, they did not communicate it with me at the time.
Or, later.

What occasions this now?
Three years later I am still receiving anonymous – of course, brave cowards – hate messages through my other WordPress blog. Criticizing me, my poetry, my views, my fans (“middle-aged fat women”.. gee, you’d think they’d notice they’re not all young blonde tarts).

The anonymous hatred and defamation continues on MySpace, and other sites, despite the fact that I do not interact in the same manner as those people.

Sick, obsessed, jealous, and deranged people.

And if not outright hateful,  they’re malicious in demanding to know why I am angry and why I should be nicer, and telling me more of the same.
Anonymous accusations without proof. From assholes using fake ids, etc.

And I’m the one who’s supposed to have the character flaw?

We all know of the case where a woman decided she’d get some teenager. She manufactured a gossip campaign, phonied-up emails, other documents, got her friends to harass and demean her, ended up getting an entire slew of assholes against her for no other reason than that this woman had decided to do so.

It can happen.. whether it originates in Britain, or in, say, Texas.

The woman’s in jail, the teenager committed suicide.

Get bent, the lot of you, psychos.

©Dean J. Baker

P.S. Yes, many people complained to MySpace about the defamation, and continued allegations.

MySpace’s response: nothing.

http://www.cippic.ca/index.php?page=defamation-and-slapps/#faq_defamation

http://www.latimes.com/news/nationworld/nation/la-na-blogger-suits-20100823,0,5604043.story?track=rss

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